Chill out :)

I was reading proverbs today and found a very good one :) It was Chapter fifteen verse one! It says that A gentle answers turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. I have gotten into various discussions that did not turn out for good in any way because harsh things were said. I know that this sounds horrible, but I have also experienced many arguments that end well because gentle words were said. This is pretty easy to understand, but when you are in the actual situation and are angryy!!!! it is really hard to say gentle words. I want to get better at saying gentle words and sloowww to speak when I am angry. It is something that I need God's help with.